Ode to the Military Spouse

A few pros (plus a lot of cons) to being a military spouse.


.....getting up at the crack of dawn the day your W-2 is posted to file your taxes and wait for that great return (I missed it by a day... and services were free)

..... dragging your children to church yet again without the help (and sanity) of your spouse (thank heavens for friends!!!)

..... turn on the tube to find yet another news reporter complaining about the war and how terrible things are over there. Or, to tell us all about another attack where military men and women were killed

...... waiting for the phone call(or email) from your spouse - just so you know they are ok

...... sending off the package full of goodies and pictures drawn by your children in hopes it makes it there in one piece (and before they come home)

..... hearing about where your spouse's ship is on the News (because he can't call and tell you)

..... getting a 10% discount at most stores (if you ask)and for plenty of tickets

...... having the benefits of the commissary and exchange

..... going to the clinic to get all of your medication free including check ups (if you have the afternoon free)

..... job stability (blessing)

..... waiting for the weather to change so that your husband CAN come home as scheduled (having to move your day around because of the change)

..... Weather (fog) can defeat the United States Navy


Here's to waiting for the ship and our much anticipated and dreaded last few weeks together before the Oceans separate us.

I think I need to clarify

I think I left the wrong impression with my last post. My life is not horrible, nor is it even kind of close to horrible. I have some wonderful family members, and some that cause me to pull out my hair (thus the closure thing). Overall, I am very blessed and know that the slight challenge (mentioned in the previous post) that will come with deployment will go smoothly and all will be fine. I'm sorry to have put across a negative "ambiance". That was not my intent. I just needed to let off a bit of steam and figured that I could get some sound advice from friends (which I did). I appreciate you all and am blessed to have you in my life.

I think the thing that always keeps me wondering is that life is just too short. It's too short to be upset or to hold things in. I can see it with Jeremiah being away so much - CARPE DIEM!! You have to "seize the day". So... in my quest to seize the day, I am going to dote all over my family time for the next few weeks and handle my "stress" in a very healthy way. I am going to learn to speak up when necessary too. So... I've fixed my problems (minus the need to have Super Nanny LIVE with me) and am glad to be done venting. Plus, I'll be adding some of our dinner recipes to the food blog over the next few weeks. I'm REALLY excited about that part!


Well... off to conquer the world!! =0)

Boy do I need to update....

Ok, So I know I need to update, but I don't have a lot to tell really. I will give it my best shot (though pathetic). Mel loves her hair cut so much that she decided to cut a few chunks herself! (Don't look too closely at it and you might not be able to tell) Things are getting crazy around here.... Julia has amazing climbing capabilities. Not kidding you - she can get to ANYTHING she is in the mood to eat!! Anyone have a size 3T straitjacket??
I have the cookbook bug, just not the cooking one! I love to look at my new cookbooks (courtesy of the Waldenbooks sale). I will be adding my crock pot Chili recipe tonight if it turns out yummy!! I have finally marked every recipe that I would like to try. Be on the lookout in the next few weeks for some great recipes on my recipe blog!! I have just a few days to get things "tied up" around here to welcome home the hubby. Yay, he will be home for less than 30 days!!! FINALLY!!! To have him home! (note to readers: read that sentence enthusiastically instead of sarcastically) I already have some challenges of my own to deal with while he is on deployment. You won't be left out of the loop. Keep checking back.
The library has been LOVING me lately with all the books I have been putting on hold about quilting/sewing. I have to take them back now - there is just too much information. I do plan on quilting in the VERY near future though. I think I would like to start with a tote. That way I can have a smaller, yet more functional Church bag.
Then comes the subject of closure. Boy do I need a little bit of it right now with some things in my life. They just happen to be difficult things to actually get closure with though (if anyone catches my drift...maybe I am sounding just TOTALLY nuts to everyone right now) I do need some advice though. Should I get my closure (or my say rather) - or should I let it slide for the next 18 months?
I got a chance to talk to the 8-11 year old girls on Saturday (thank you Heidi for the opportunity!) and really had a blast. I was teaching a little bit about skin care for them and they washed their faces. At the end, a little girl asked me, "How come everyone looks the same?" It was too cute! Beware of that face wash you use today - it may change you into something different!
Then I got the chance to help out with the Primary Bulletin Board. Well, my Cricut helped actually, I didn't do anything. I had a good time visiting with the ladies that came by and really wish that my house could stay in a "mostly clean" state so that people can do that ALL THE TIME!!! (stop by that is) Plus, that would put me in the mood to bake more often because then I know I would be sharing my treats with friends instead of them sitting all alone in their container until I slowly (but surely) eat them all.

Why is it....??

* that not even 6 hours after you mop and clean the floor, something sticky lands on it
* children want to come right behind you and mess everything up you JUST cleaned
* my husband is always gone...(oh, I know that answer - IT'S THE NAVY!!!)
* that tub time is more like a water war zone
* my youngest child will do the potty thing better than my oldest
* my children have super kung fu powers (Watch Kung Fu Panda and you'll see what I mean) when it comes to their favorite snacks
* one or the other of my children almost always has a runny nose, keeping me from going to the gym (gee,Thanks winter)
* when you are prepared, nothing happens, and when you aren't prepared - the whole thing comes crashing down on you!?
* that I have so many negative family members?!
* that drama always ruins your life!!! (I HATE drama by the way)
* people think it is SO easy to take advantage of me!? (not any of you all)

A few changes...

So, the past little bit has found a few changes in our lives. First being:


FINALLY cutting Melanie's hair!! (She loves it by the way)


I told her she would look like a princess if she let me cut it (Everyone, please play along). I think she looks beautiful! It is no where close to Nancy's great work, but it'll have to do for now.

Some friends of ours got engaged:


We were there to witness (and photograph) the event. We ate at a great place called Zushi's (which is also our Next change as it has been added on our great restaurants list) near the Cheesecake Factory (which was our intended destination). It just stinks how long the wait is for some of those restaurants!! However, Zushi's was a hit (no wait, and great food.... we didn't try the sushi though... we stuck with THESE dishes)

Zushi's food added as one of our FAVORITES!


Jeremiah's Salmon Teriyaki


My Chicken Teriyaki with a breaded squash or eggplant?! It was yum either way. These dishes were just too beautiful to eat, so we had to take pictures as proof!! =0)

The newly engaged couple ordered this:


Sushi galore with some extra little things I can't recall

Finally.... I found a Sugar Cookie recipe that turns out SO YUMMY!!!


These suckers are SO good! If you want the recipe, you will have to visit my recipe blog (that I share with my talented sister and Mother). I will post it later today. And, of course, you need to ice the cookies for the BEST cookie possible!! I kind of have a thing for sugar cookies.

And lastly, but not least (I just don't have pictures for these yet...)

Some Friends of our have moved (or are moving) back to the area.

Some Friends are leaving (and we'll miss them greatly)!!

Book Sale

Ok, now I am telling you all this in good faith that you will not buy up all the awesome books that I want. Please spare the cookbooks when you visit. The Waldenbook in the Military Circle Mall is going out of business. All of their bargain books are 50% off and everything else in the store excluding magazines is 25% off. I heard that it just happened recently. Keep an eye on them, I'm sure the discounts will get deeper! I hope you all enjoy!

I'm gunna do.....

Awhile back a friend of mine posted a list with things she has done highlighted. Since it is the start of a new year, I think that it would be great to highlight the things that I WANT to do this year(will be in italics). Plus, I'll follow the traditional idea and make those I have already done BOLD. I'm a little nervous to do this because then you all will know how unadventurous I really am. (Not that I think it really would be hard for anyone to believe) I hopefully have plenty of life left to "live a little" and try some things - so, here is where I am going to start. Wish me luck! To those of you with lots of guts.... could I borrow some for a while???

Challenge
Rules are: Anything you have done has to be in bold. How much have you done?

1. Started your own blog
2. Slept under the stars (love girls camp!)
3. Played in a band (in Jr. High)
4. Visited Hawaii
5. Watched a meteor shower (always meant to, fell asleep)
6. Given more than you can afford to charity
7. Been to Disneyland
8. Climbed a mountain
9. Held a Praying Mantis
10. Sang a solo (in my house every night when I put the girls to sleep...no hidden meaning there)
11. Bungee jumped
12. Visited Paris
13. Watched a lightning storm at sea
14. Taught yourself an art from scratch
15. Adopted a child
16. Had food poisoning (girls camp...yeah!)
17. Walked to the top of the Statue of Liberty
18. Grown your own vegetables
19. Seen the Mona Lisa in France
20. Slept on an overnight train
21. Had a pillow fight (good fun right there)
22. Hitch hiked
23. Taken a sick day when you’re not ill (guilty as charged)
24. Built a snow fort
25. Held a lamb
26. Gone skinny dipping
27. Run a Marathon (how about I start with a 10K and work up to it, eh?)
28. Ridden in a gondola in Venice
29. Seen a total eclipse
30. Watched a sunrise or sunset
31. Hit a home run
32. Been on a cruise
33. Seen Niagara Falls in person
34. Visited the birthplace of your ancestors
35. Seen an Amish community (go PA!!)
36. Taught yourself a new language
37. Had enough money to be truly satisfied
38. Seen the Leaning Tower of Pisa in person
39. Gone rock climbing
40. Seen Michelangelo’s David
41. Sung karaoke (yes, and feel terrible for those who heard!)
42. Seen Old Faithful geyser erupt
43. Bought a stranger a meal at a restaurant
44. Visited Africa
45. Walked on a beach by moonlight (OBX)
46. Been transported in an ambulance
47. Had your portrait painted (if a caricature counts!)
48. Gone deep sea fishing
49. Seen the Sistine Chapel in person
50. Been to the top of the Eiffel Tower in Paris
51. Gone scuba diving or snorkeling
52. Kissed in the rain
53. Played in the mud
54. Gone to a drive-in theater
55. Been in a movie
56. Visited the Great Wall of China
57. Started a business (not the salesperson type)
58. Taken a martial arts class
59. Visited Russia
60. Served at a soup kitchen
61. Sold Girl Scout Cookies - I bought some
62. Gone whale watching
63. Got flowers for no reason (to save my poor husband from embarrassment - he HAS gotten me flowers, they were for reasons though)
64. Donated blood, platelets or plasma (once, and that will be my final as well....scared me to death)
65. Gone sky diving
66. Visited a Nazi Concentration Camp
67. Bounced a check
68. Flown in a helicopter
69. Saved a favorite childhood toy (my blankie, I have it here at our place)
70. Visited the Lincoln Memorial
71. Eaten Caviar (yuck!)
72. Pieced a quilt
73. Stood in Times Square
74. Toured the Everglades
75. Been fired from a job
76. Seen the Changing of the Guards in London
77. Broken a bone (twice)
78. Been on a speeding motorcycle
79. Seen the Grand Canyon in person
80. Published a book
81. Visited the Vatican
82. Bought a brand new car (my hubby did before we were married)
83. Walked in Jerusalem
84. Had your picture in the newspaper
85. Read the entire Bible (Family Scripture Study)
86. Visited the White House {outside if it}
87. Killed and prepared an animal for eating - Got to pluck the feathers off a chicken on Pioneer Trek when I was 16)
88. Had chickenpox
89. Saved someone’s life
90. Sat on a jury
91. Met someone famous (General Authorities, Cosmo)
92. Joined a book club
93. Lost a loved one
94. Had a baby
95. Seen the Alamo in person
96. Swam in the Great Salt Lake
97. Been involved in a law suit
98. Owned a cell phone
99. Been stung by a bee (only once, now I am terrified of them! Silly story really, if you are really bored you can ask me about it sometime)
100. Visited Italy

Happy 2009!!

Midnight found us surrounded by friends this year. It was wonderful. The eatin' was great and the game we played was a HOOT! I wish you all a wonderful New Year and we'll be praying you all fare well this year. *Toast* to a President who I hope will do what is right and best for our country - I'm praying he will, safety during deployments, happy reunions, safe travels - for those friends whose journeys will continue to other states this year, health for our family, continued low gas prices, and to wonderful friends and the opportunities to make many more!!

For those interested in the fun game that we played, the name of it is CURSES.