A few pros (plus a lot of cons) to being a military spouse.
.....getting up at the crack of dawn the day your W-2 is posted to file your taxes and wait for that great return (I missed it by a day... and services were free)
..... dragging your children to church yet again without the help (and sanity) of your spouse (thank heavens for friends!!!)
..... turn on the tube to find yet another news reporter complaining about the war and how terrible things are over there. Or, to tell us all about another attack where military men and women were killed
...... waiting for the phone call(or email) from your spouse - just so you know they are ok
...... sending off the package full of goodies and pictures drawn by your children in hopes it makes it there in one piece (and before they come home)
..... hearing about where your spouse's ship is on the News (because he can't call and tell you)
..... getting a 10% discount at most stores (if you ask)and for plenty of tickets
...... having the benefits of the commissary and exchange
..... going to the clinic to get all of your medication free including check ups (if you have the afternoon free)
..... job stability (blessing)
..... waiting for the weather to change so that your husband CAN come home as scheduled (having to move your day around because of the change)
..... Weather (fog) can defeat the United States Navy
Here's to waiting for the ship and our much anticipated and dreaded last few weeks together before the Oceans separate us.
Wednesday, January 28, 2009
Ode to the Military Spouse
Posted by Janice at 5:00 PM
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You know what's funny, my man comes home tomorrow after only 4 weeks away (which will be followed by only 3 weeks at home) and I was just venting to myself and hating the Navy and not feeling very optimistic. You are ever so right about every one of those things. Sometimes I forget to let the Savior fill the role that is only His to fill and I really start getting down on things. I have always admired your quiet example of 'how to handle it'. so, keep it up, and enjoy your fabulous family!
Enjoy having your guy home about as long as I have mine home!! We need to get together and visit and let the children play! It would be fun.
i appreciate all you deal with. i can't empathize, but i still have your back, sister:)
I think all military wives can relate to those statements. There's trials AND blessings. Sometimes the tables just don't seem very balanced, do they. Enjoy your hubby and I'll be thinking about you guys!
More power to military wives. I was only a military daughter so I don't quite understand! Hang in there! I know my mom has missed the military now that my dad is retired. Maybe someday you will too :-)
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